Arjun – Caretaker

Ammu was delivered on a bed of straw one summer night. Lulled by the sound of the sea roil the shore and warmed by her mother’s breath, she slept soundly.

Ammu has grown into a good natured cow who unfortunately has been unable to give birth to calves. Instead, she lies next to a cow that had just calved, earnestly trying to claim it as her own. The other in the herd, most of whom have gotten fond of Ammu, indulge this particular eccentricity of hers.

Ammu and her friends, Kunju and Pandi are Vechur cows, a rare breed, smallest in the world in terms of size and valued for the prodigious quantities of milk that they produce. Vechur cows once lived in sizeable populations in Kerala until the 1960s, but started to become rare when native cattle were crossbred with exotic varieties, until, at a point in time they were faced with imminent extinction. The milk and clarified butter from a Vechur cow contains anti-microbial properties and are used in the Ayurveda spa at Xandari Pearl.

“Don’t be taken in by her calm exterior.” Arjun, in charge of animal husbandry, says, pointing to Ammu, contently nibbling grass under a tree nearby. “Underneath, there is a boiling mass of emotions? Now, this Kunju, she can be tiresome at times. She will deliberately do things to annoy me, swinging her tail in my face when I milk her. She does it on purpose: and looks at me out of the corner of a large eye when I scold her. She has beautiful eyes. Now, I keep a twig nearby.”

Arjun smiles indulgently at Kunju, who rubs her snout against his arm. “We were toddy tappers once,” he continues, “I have climbed trees since I was a kid, I have fallen five times and injured myself, now, my children do not want me to go up anymore, even though I want to. I came to work here….and found the cows and goats in my care today, in a mess.”

A goat butts him in the stomach, demanding attention, to which he laughs indulgently, pushing back against its horns –“Meet Kurumban.”

 

“If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans.”

– JAMES HERRIOT

A cow with a speckled hide, large patches of black and white, purposefully strides towards us…..and Arjun says “Ah, this is Pandi, a dominant woman, one who will push her way to the front of the queue, bully and intimidate her demure friends.”

Scratching the back of Pandi’s ears in turn, Arjun continues “I love it here. My children have their own lives. These cows and goats are my children now, we often talk to each other. We have a couple of dogs too, that have made their home here. All these animals live in peace. The management at Xandari has built this amazing space, and they are supportive of every demand that I make. I clean the pens, disinfect, bathe the animals….feed them, until they retire for the night. My entire day is spent caring for these animals, who otherwise would have no voice.”

Cancer, the mere word sends chills down spines and a prayer to God begging to be spared. If only wishes were horses! More often than not, this Goliath has devoured many and has had the last laugh. Time and again it has demanded an answer to the looming question: What is bigger- the fear or the will to overcome it?

Once every month, the picturesque Restaurant 51 at Xandari Harbour at Kochi basks in the presence of fortitude, fearlessness and determination courtesy Premi Matthew, the founder of Hair for Hope, India and Protect Your Mom International.

There are people, who after being diagnosed of cancer refused to cocoon themselves with misery and decided to battle it out. Leena Joseph, Megha Kuriakose, Shirley Santhosh, Preetha Menon & Yogi Salin- these women stand proof to J.R.R.Tolkien’s words- “Great heart will not be denied”. They attributed their victory over the ordeal to a downright will to live and an unflinching family support. Talking about their battle, they laid constant emphasis on how ‘coming out’ was not just important but vital. Teaching the people to address the sufferer with empathy and normalcy is the need of the hour. They feel it is the attitude that gets you first and it is imperative to keep it positive.

Leena Joseph, who won the battle against cancer twice, unfortunately died in an accident.

‘Accepting’ is half the battle won. The other half depends on the response. Cancer is rank with sympathy. Instead of helping them overcome, people shove the sufferers into the bottomless abyss of pity and melancholy- killing them emotionally first. It is this poison that demands the antidote sooner. Hence the need for positive support system. Just spreading the awareness will not do the trick: creating a rock-solid support system would be the booster dose.

Premi Matthew along with Ms.Veena Mahesh, former Asst Producer Mazhavil Manorama and Thushara Arun, Premi’s sister in law have taken the initiative of holding a monthly meet for the patients and survivors. The objective of the meet is to connect with others who are battling the disease and discuss problems which are special to cancer patients and help them beat the disease. Small sessions on yoga, meditation etc. will be subsequently added. The sole purpose is to debunk the myths surrounding cancer and rid the miserable ambience that is associated with it. It is entirely a labour of love and everyone and anyone is welcome to this do.

It is said that relationships with teachers extend far beyond the classroom. Exemplifying this is Mr.George Muthoot, Chairman Muthoot Group and the student of Ms. Premi Matthews- an anchor to this noble endeavor. Mr. Muthoot is the hospitality sponsor to this cause pledging his support and offering his premises, the tranquil Xandari Harbor in Kochi.

Support groups exist in the world over, but not in Kerala. Do tag anyone you know and spread the word. It is time to light their dark tunnel. It is time to find more Davids to this Goliath. It is time to spread HOPE.

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